“Her” also known as “Lost Identity”, is a song I wrote almost 30 years ago in August of 1996. It has been modified a bit since then by adding a chorus and bridge and removing a few lines, but otherwise, it’s about the same…
I really never thought I would release this song, but as I recorded it the other day, I figured why not.
The song is not written about anyone in particular. It never was. It’s simple but means a lot to me, and I guess it can mean a lot to other people as well. It can be as deep as you want to go with it.
In a nutshell, its about forgetting who you are while being overcome with bad decisions and bad people in your life. Looking inward at who you are, where you are now, how did you get to this point, and how/when do you ask for help?
Pictured below is the original notebook I wrote the lyrics in, along with another notebook I wrote it in later.
I hope it can mean something to someone.




